Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Midlife meaning of blah


Midlife Crisis is a term coined in 1965 by Elliott Jaques and is significant for a time in which adults come to realize their own mortality and how much time is left in their lives.
 
Most people change everything in their lives. Some try to get back their wild and free 20 year old ways. Some create a whole new identity and life.

Me? I wasn't quite wild and free in my 20's. I had my first child by 20 and 2 years later had my 2nd. 2 years after that I was divorced, but was blessed to find my soul mate afterward.

No. I do not want to go back to those years. I do not want to drastically change my appearance and life.

I guess you could say I am not quite having a midlife crisis as much as I am having a midlife blah blah.

I do want to change who I am. I am not happy with me. I love my husband and my 4 children and our home (well I would like to remodel a lot of my home).

Nope, I am unhappy with how I have grown. I want to change that.

Why am I telling you this? Perhaps this is my way of having my midlife blah blah and being able to change myself for the better.
I have tried a couple of other blogs, but was unmotivated to finish or work on them.  I am ready to start my new chapter and become the woman my family believes I am/ can be.

Welcome! I hope that this blog can maybe help you if you are having a midlife blah blah, too.

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